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‘Tarikh Ini Saya Putuskan Untuk Tinggal Di Hati Awak’- Sambut Anniversary Pertama, Ini Ucapan Sweet Hazama Kepada Isteri Tercinta

January 15th, 2018 | by Ai
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Hari ulang tahun perkahwinan sudah pasti merupakan hari yang paling istimewa buat setiap pasangan berkahwin mengimbau semula saat suka duka yang telah dilalui bersama sepanjang bergelar suami isteri. Setiap perkahwinan pasti ada pasang surutnya dan mereka turut mengimpikan kehidupan yang bahagia hingga ke akhir hayat.

15 Januari merupakan tarikh keramat bagi pasangan Hazama dan isterinya, Genervie Kam apabila disatukan pada hari ini setahun yang lalu. Kini usia perkahwinan mereka sudah menjangkau satu tahun. Paling mencuri tumpuan apabila Hazama dan Gevervie Kam dilihat saling membalas ucapan sweet di Instagram.

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This 1 year taught me everything

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Last year, we decided the craziest thing… to get married within 1 week and we did. And now, a year has gone by as husband and wife. Marriage is one of the hardest journey. It is more than a commitment. It is a covenant. It is easy to get married. But it is tough to stay married. This 1 year has been full of ups and downs, learning to adjust to living with another person (and the family)… different up bringing, different habits. This 1 year has taught me many things. As an independent woman, I learnt to submit to my husband. I had to learn to allow him to make decisions (even when it is the wrong one). I learnt the meaning of patience, sacrifice and forgiveness. Praying for patience is one thing. But practicing patience is another thing. I still fail many times. It is easy to get tit for tat when communication breaks down (to get the other person to understand). But yet we know that’s not the best solution. I also learnt never to calculate who does “more”. It is very easy to fall into this trap and I am often guilty of it. This usually happens when frustration steps in. “I only want you to understand how I feel” is a very common statement in a marriage. We often pray for our partner’s weaknesses, but yet we wish God answered it immediately. At the end of the day, no marriage is smooth sailing. It is a journey. It is hard work. 1 year has gone by. I pray that God will open our eyes to the things He wants us to change in our lives and give us the patience to wait for that change to happen. Change is a process. And change begins with ourselves. I pray that God will turn our weaknesses to our strength, and use it to help other people. Help us to focus on each others strengths instead of mistakes. May Your grace be upon us. Guide us and help us to always stay focused on You and not be distracted by what other people say. What You say only matters. Bless us in ways we cannot imagine abd shut doors which are not meant for us. Teach us to trust Your ways. Your plans are always better. Help us not to lean on our own understanding. Do not let our emotions to dictate our actions. Remind us that Your promises are always greater than our problems. Happy 1st anniversary 😘

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Genervie memberitahu bukan mudah untuk melayari bahtera perkahwinan ini sepanjang setahun mereka bersama. Malah dia turut berkata banyak perkara yang dia telah pelajari untuk memahami hati budi bukan sahaja Hazama malah keluarganya juga. Tambah Genervie, belajar untuk sabar adalah mudah tapi untuk mempraktikkannya adalah sesuatu perkara yang sukar.

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Malah, bukan Admin sahaja yang rasakan ucapan mereka ini sweet dan romantik, tetapi peminat mereka turut mengatakan perkara yang sama. Di kesempatan ini, Admin juga ingin mengucapkan selamat ulang tahun perkahwinan yang pertama buat pasangan Hazama dan Genervie ini.  Semoga rumah tangga mereka sentiasa dipalit  rasa bahagia dan akan kekal hingga ke jannah.

Sumber: Hazama, Genervie Kam