Pergelutan hak penjagaan anak antara Serina Redzuawan dan bekas suami, Gavin Edward O’Luanaigh, akhirnya menemui penyelesaian apabila Serina diberi hak menjaga anak perempuannya, Isabella. Manakala anak lelaki mereka, Tristan akan berada di bawah jagaan bekas suami.

Selaku bapa, Chef Wan bersyukur akhirnya kebenaran berpihak kepadanya. Segala tuduhan dan cubaan untuk memisahkannya dengan cucu juga telah digugurkan.

Tuduhan digugurkan

Alhamdulilah after almost 3 years since my daughter divorce and battling for custody of her 2 children Tristan dan Isabella the court has decided that Serina will have custody of her daughter Isabella while Tristan will be with the father. I am sure its a disappointment for both parent to hear this. But on our side at least we won part of the battle that include also not allowing my grandchildren to spent the nite at my home!

All accusation was not accepted by court dan digugurkan! Niat jahat mereka nak aniaya dan pisahkan saya dengan cucu-cucu and be seen as a bad grandpa. Allah kenakan balik sebiji pada muka mereka! I still cannot comprehend after Serina gave all her testimony about how ” unislamic” way of life the father is that my grandson was given custody to the father?

Menerusi status di Instagram, chef terkenal ini percaya kedua-dua pihak kecewa apabila anak-anak terpaksa dipisahkan. Walau bagaimanapun, dia bersyukur larangan supaya cucu-cucu tidak bermalam di rumahnya dibatalkan.

Susah bila kahwin agama & bangsa lain

Tentu sekali ini menjadi satu persoalan yang besar. I just have no answer for that. Yes we were told that both the kids were being asked which parent they want to be with? Naturally after 3 years living with the father the kids will agreed to live with the father. Kids at that age are easily influence pun and cannot make decision on their own. I hate to see both the siblings being seperated. Insyallah we will appeal nanti.

Baik apa pun both parties now must make sure that both this siblings will spent time together on both weekends of the months on either sides. I told my daughter, ” Look week days the kids are busy at school pun. And weekends both parties will have both the kids together at the same time on both sides”. I guess this is the only way to please both parties. I hate all this child custody as it seem so messy.

Tetapi kita orang islam tak boleh tutup sebelah mata takut di akhirat nanti di tuntut bila akidah cucu-cucu kita tak betul islamnya. For now i guess we have to just accept and respect the court decision to please both parties. Susah bila kawin agama dan bangsa lain ini. So complicated nak handle pun dari segi hak menjaga anak-anak ini. Saya juga pening kepala.. Kita kawin kan mereka elok-elok. Habis duit beratus ratus ribu. Kita ingat jadi bapa ini la pengorbanan kita. Di akhirnya kita juga terpaksa menanggung semua ini.

Menurut Chef Wan lagi, selepas tiga tahun anak-anak tinggal bersama bapa sudah tentulah anak-anak akan memilih bapa mereka. Katanya, kanak-kanak biasanya mudah terpengaruh dan tidak boleh membuat keputusan dengan sendiri. Sebagai datuk, dia sedih cucu-cucu terpaksa berpisah dan berkemungkinan akan membuat rayuan.

Untuk kebaikan anak-anak, mereka juga bersetuju adik beradik ini dibenarkan meluangkan masa bersama-sama pada hujung minggu setiap bulan. Setakat ini, mereka menghormati keputusan mahkamah untuk memuaskan hati kedua-dua pihak.

Sumber : Chef Wan